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Bookmarking this for some future reading! I love that we're all marinating on this topic.

Here's a piece I wrote recently that is just the beginning of rethinking my own relationship to success and perhaps my life (and those around me) towards more collective care and community: https://stephpf.substack.com/p/actually-i-dont-want-to-work

If anyone wants to connect over reimagining all of this, I'd love to cultivate a little group of us. Thank you so much, Mika, for putting all of this together and articulating your own thoughts so well.

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Thank you so much for this contribution. It’s so exciting to know we aren’t the only ones on this path!

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"In a world that often equates success with productivity, wealth, and societal approval, many of us find ourselves out of alignment with this message we are told we should be striving for."

OMG So perfectly defined. This beautifully succinct and collated post is going to keep me very busy today. Thank you 🙏

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Thank you for your message. As you can see there are a lot of us who are trying to heal from this message. I hope you enjoyed the pieces. 😊

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'Isn’t that what I’ve been unconsciously, mindlessly consuming and seeing?'

Very true, Mika. As a society, we've been heavily conditioned to think of success in mostly materialistic terms.

I'd like to share my article here on how we as a society define success:

https://open.substack.com/pub/reformthesystem/p/is-this-how-you-define-true-success?r=1mpojg&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web

Thanks.

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Thank you so much for your contribution! I can’t wait to read it.

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Thank you so much for including me here! Echoing what Kelsey said about how it feels like Substack is a great platform for connecting with others who are interested in authentic flow, and success on our own terms.

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You’re so welcome! Thank you so much for your contribution!

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Oh my gosh, Mika, this is a GOLD MINE!!! A treasure trove of inspiration and knowledge. I am blown away by your using your platform to always bring others together, share the spotlight, and create authentic connection. Thank you ❤️ I have bookmarked several of these already and can't wait to turn to them for inspiration.

I've written a post that is on this topic, but perhaps also more niche as it's specifically for mothers. In case any moms are reading this, here you are 🥰

https://miriamcruz.substack.com/p/mothering-from-the-void

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Thank you for your kind words Miriam. I’m so excited that you’ve found some great pieces and new writers. That makes me so happy!

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So glad to see so many people on board with shifting the outdated perceptions of success! Our worth isn’t defined by our work status. We’re worthy because we exist. 🙌

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Yes!! We are worthy because we exist! ✨✨

I’m starting to feel like we need this taught in schools!

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That would be fantastic!!

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Thank you for including me, Mika! I can't wait to read these posts – it's reassuring to know there are so many others who want to get off the hamster wheel and create a fulfilling life on their own terms as well 🤍

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Isn’t it exciting to know there are so many of us!

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Thank you for compiling this list, Mika. I'm really looking forward to dipping in and out of it. It's a fascinating topic!

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Lots goodies here (and in the comments), enjoy Halyley!

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How wonderful! One to save and return to many many times. What an inspiring group! Thank you Mika.

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Enjoy Emily!! If you have any of your wonderful pieces that you want to share. Please share them in the comments! I love your writing on this topic!

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Thank you Mika 😊

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Oh my goodness!!! Thank you for featuring me!

I can't say enough times how much I love and am in awe of the community that you are cultivating. I've been around the blocks a few times. It's like you are a flower opening, rather than prying a flower open.

Keep it up!

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Thank you for always leaving encouraging messages!

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Than you so much for leaving your contribution Neha!

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Thank you for always so warm and encouraging 🤍

This is my New one I hope you like it!

https://open.substack.com/pub/nehadhami/p/redefining-success-beyond-societys?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=38g8x8

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Mika! Thank you so much for the shoutout. I am grateful. And I hope that your readers learn something from my piece too cause life is too short to be chasing dreams that aren't ours! ❤️

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Thank you so much for your contribution Nobuhle!

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Oooof what a collection! Saving this!

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LOTS of goodies in there. 😄

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Thanks for taking the time to compile this list and curating my “play next” list with supportive and motivational content 💕

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Enjoy Sam! I hope you find some nice new writers. Xx

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Thx, will be having a read of some of those. I just posted a Note on Redefining Success - specifically about Trump and his "sucess/leadership," but it has implications beyond that too. https://substack.com/@lindsayhartley/note/c-57715892?utm_source=activity_item

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Perfect! Thank you for including this to the conversation Lindsay!

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