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So many beautiful resources here!! Thank you Mika! Excited to check them out. I am also with this idea of rumination. Iโ€™m finding embracing slow living is now the way I want to live. This has always been my way. Itโ€™s beyond refreshing that I donโ€™t have to fight it.

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Iโ€™m finally embracing slow living, and I love it so so much! Iโ€™ve had to detangle old programming that said โ€œyouโ€™re lazyโ€ or โ€œyouโ€™re not doing enoughโ€. Now I feel free and happy. Not only am I benefiting but everyone around me is too!

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I'm so sorry that you were taken ill during the holidays. Hope you have recovered by now. I do agree that sickness is our body's way to tell us we need to pause and rest. It seems that a lot of people I know or know of were/have been sick, including myself, as if there was a collective alarm to warn us how unsustainable our productivity culture is! Thanks for sharing those wonderful resources/articles, some of what I had also read. As you know, from my recent essay, I came up with my word of the year, "Self-Led." It almost became a phrase but I decided to make the action into a word. It's good to know others have come up with the idea of "Phrase of the Year." I might try that in the future! What is yours?

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My phase is โ€œreleased the pressure, embrace playโ€.

To be honest, it almost feels like Iโ€™m the defender in an NFL game, pushing away all the offenders, who represent โ€œnegative thoughtsโ€, and the ball is my mind.

So that, coupled with doing fun things like illustrations and relearning the piano, I have felt lighter than Iโ€™ve felt in a long time. ๐Ÿ’•

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What a powerful phrase gor your intention. So glad yo hear you feel lighter. I'm guessing your inner child is rejoicing!

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When someone else posted their Yes/No list for the year, I didnโ€™t want to commit for the year, so I decided to just make one for every month! Sort of like number 4?

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I think thatโ€™s a great idea. It means that youโ€™re constantly reviewing from month to month and course correcting when necessaryโ€ฆ.also you arenโ€™t basing you whole yearโ€™s goal on the person you were in Janโ€ฆthings change, people change ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Yes, yes exactly!! Smaller time horizons! (Also just realized this is also the pretty much the subject of my most recent Substack! ๐Ÿ˜‚ https://marikapaezwiesen.substack.com/p/overcoming-resistance-for-dummies )

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thank you so much for including my work! here's to rethinking this beginning time! And I have been writing 2024 every day because I've been dating my days in my sketchbook, but I was thinking how without that I would have no sense of time. Had me thinking back to how writing checks was the thing that seared a year in your mind...

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Oh my, to think the โ€œyoung kidsโ€ wonโ€™t even know what checks are (in NZ we spell it cheques). Thanks for giving me permission to take the whole โ€œmonth offโ€ to reflect. So freeing! All the best with your reflection time.โœจ

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Totally hear you on sometimes a bug being a blessing in disguise ๐Ÿฅธ hope it led to restorative rest for you!

I decided to try to not look at my phone first thing waking up in the morning as my main โ€œresolutionโ€ - kind of a twist on the traditional but Iโ€™m hoping the small change leads to big impact on how I feel starting the day.. weโ€™ll see!

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Thatโ€™s interesting how you shared about not going on your phone first thing in the morning. That used to be my habit for years (transformative!) but this week, I have started to hop on the Substack App when I first wake up!! Timely reminder to abandon this new habit ASAP!! Thanks for commenting Jess!

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No way, wow! Glad it was a reminder and youโ€™ll try to bring it back. Substack first thing is very tempting for me too - I try to tell myself itโ€™ll still be there after my morning routine (& itโ€™s almost a treat that way) ๐Ÿ˜† have a great weekend!

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