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Hi, I'm Rosie from Ireland but moved to Italy 6 years ago where I am having a fabulous midlife crisis. I bought a derelict 22-room villa by accident and renovated it. The process was comical and stressful so I wrote a book about it during lockdown. It is now a 5 book ongoing humorous memoir series and has fulfilled my dream of becoming a full-time author (10 books published).

My Substack is 'A Fabulous Midlife Crisis' and I write mostly humour about living in Italy, how to have a fabulous midlife crisis and writing.

My morning routine is waking by 7am, grabbing a cup of tea and writing in bed until noon. I aim for 1000 words per day if I am not editing.

Keen to build a community of fabulous women! Nice to meet you!

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Hi Rosie,

Really nice to meet you. Wish I'd been writing when I restored my farmhouse, thirty + years ago!

I write about food and life in Italy – with a lot of humour and in my dressing gown, but not in bed as I don't find it comfortable to write there. And I share your pain about thankless gardening..

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I wish you had been writing about it too! I love hearing other people’s stories about renovating in Italy. I’m following you now ofcourse, so we can compare notes of life here! x

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That’s great – I will look forward to it! And I am thinking that there may be aspects of it that I could still write about!

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I have no idea why your comment popped up today on my feed, considering you wrote this 17 days ago, but I am enamored already! I can't wait to deep dive the archives and learn more about your world.

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Just subscribed. Midlife is sooo interesting isn’t it?

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Yes! I'm enjoying the journey (now that I have the hormones back in line!)

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The real question is how close does your journey resemble the movie "Under the tuscan sun" 😊

I love your writing habit, that's amazing!

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Ha ! Frances May lives closeby, I might get to compare notes with her someday!

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Wow Rosie a 22 room villa and you renovated, AMAZING!! And impressive. Italy is my dream trip I hope to take one day. I am Mahogany. Just getting started with Substack. Reading mostly and trying to muster up the courage to share and start building my Substack. Love your posts.

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Just start by writing for yourself as if no one else will read it. Enjoy the words and don't think about anyone else's opinion of them. :)

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What a great reminder, Rosie. I realised I began writing things people would like to read rather than what purely excites me, as I get to see how well I performed each post. You reminded me not to adapt my content to the responses🫶

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Yes do it! When you love what you write you'll find your tribe that love it too.

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What a lovely midlife crisis project! I can't wait for mine ;)

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Yeaaa! That's the spirit!

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Hi Rosie! I just subscribed. Love your writing and your sense of humor!

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Thanks Joyce! Looking forward to getting to know people on here!

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Hi Rosie, Nice to meet you too! Wow - that’s impressive. I imagine a lot of humour was required, and still is. Being Scottish has served me well in the humour department, having moved too many times. You can either laugh or cry. 😂

How have you found publishing? I write children’s books and am on the hunt for an agent for my latest one.

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Hey Jenny! Ah yes us Celts have to laugh - it's to do with the wind and rain, it makes us light-headed! Regards publishing: I had tried the trad route in my 20s and got so demoralised by it I stopped doing creative writing for 25 years. In 2020 I joined an online meetup group of Indie authors on an app called Clubhouse and my eyes were opened to a whole new way of publishing. There were women on there making 6 figures a year from self publishing. So I started self publishing in 2020 exclusively on Amazon exclusively and it's gone really well for me. I'm not at six-figure years but I'm earning better than I ever have in my life from my series of five books. So I would recommend the self pub route if you can't get an agent - in other words, don't give up like I did!

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That's great to hear! I do have an agent, but she hasn't found a publisher yet so I may have to rethink!

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I agree, it’s the weather! Thank you for the tips and encouragement. I appreciate it! Self-publishing is an avenue I am looking at more seriously. As well as my current submission, I have a finished middle-grade adventure novel that I might consider publishing. Is it Amazon KDP that you use?

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Sorry for the delay in getting back to you, I didn't see your comment until now. Yes KDP is what I use. And don't be afraid of trying Kindle Unlimited - it was 50% of my income for the first three years.

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This is really helpful advice. Thank you, Rosie. It's the encouragement I need to push forward with self-publishing my middle-grade children's adventure novel. It's worth a shot. I have Kindle Unlimited, and have discovered lots of interesting books, including yours. I've started reading 'A Rosie Life in Italy' - it's hilarious from the get-go.

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